This is a topic that I see a lot on Facebook or asked in Q&A’s is how do you get your kid into board gaming? The simple answer to that question is that you don’t. Your kid might have a completely different hobby or activity that they are interested in. But let’s talk about some things to think about if the kid does express interested in board gaming.

Play The Games They Want

This one I think is pretty obvious. Play what the kid wants to play. You might not love playing Candyland, but when they are really young, that might be what they want to play. And you can bring in new games to hope to get them playing something preferable, but play the games that the kid asks to play.

BoardGameCo is very good about talking about this. When he gets rid of games, and kids games, he always asks his kids if they still want to play it. If they say yes, even if they aren’t, it stays. But the games that he plays with his kids are the ones that they want to play and they have their own game shelf.

But it can be a trip up for some gamers. If you want your kid to love bigger and heavier games, but they still want to play a simpler. So a parent might push a harder game than they should onto the kid. And that’s an issue because now the kid feels like they don’t get to do what they wanted. They wanted to be part of what you are doing, but what you picked makes it unfun.

Don’t Introduce Too Much Too Fast

Now, that doesn’t mean don’t introduce new games. Both the letting the kid pick what they want to play and not introducing stuff too fast. A kid might really enjoy a deck building game like Dominion or Ascension, but that doesn’t mean that you take them to a really complex deck building game or introduce another 10 deck building games. That is overwhelming and learning something new all the time might be fun for some of us, but not for everyone.

Just needing to learn too much all the time can turn a young gamer off. And this one is true for most gamers. I know some people I play with who are always ready to learn something new. And there are other people I game with, they want to play the same few games most of the time. They will learn a new game, but mainly want familiar.

Don’t Go All Out All The Time

This one is going to be the most controversial, but I don’t think should be. The reason it might be controversial is that kids do need to learn how to lose graciously. But that doesn’t mean every time. And that doesn’t mean that you go out of your way to just destroy the kid. Close games tend to be more enjoyable.

There is a difference, I feel, between playing poorly all the time or obviously throwing games. Chaz Marler now with Watch It Played and previously doing his own thing on Pair of Dice Paradise, talked about it with his daughter. He and she would play Ascension and she really enjoyed it. He didn’t go all out. Instead he experimented with other strategies in the game. That made the game more fun for her and kept the games closer, while still keeping the game interesting for him.

Final Thoughts on Kids in Board Gaming

I do think that board gaming is a great hobby for a lot of kids. Mainly that as a hobby that encourages people to think. It encourages thinking outside of the box and figuring out strategies and basically stretching your brain in a way that is good for learning.

But it isn’t going to be for every kid. If they show interest, bring them into the hobby. My toddler wants to play my games. He has a few of his own games and he likes to mess around with them sometimes. We make a different game out of it because he isn’t able to grasp all the rules. But it is something he is interested in. We’ll see if he stays interested, but if he does, we’ll keep on playing the games that he finds fun, even if it is just that little fishing game where the fish move in circles.

What have you found useful with a kid that is interested in gaming? Anything that has worked or hasn’t worked?

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